Love is indeed the most beautiful feeling that has ever found a home inside the human heart. The most thing about the abstract of love is that you can never have a mainstream definition to love.
With every heart comes to a different contemplation of love and this subjective demeanour of love is what makes it immensely beautiful.
But let’s move away from love for a while and try to ponder upon the institution of relationships, not just relationships but relationships in compliance with the modern day frames of time. If love is beautiful how can relationships be ugly?
If love, as understood by all of us, is an alluring dimension of human life how does an endorsement of love, relationships gets shoddy at times?
Relationships in the modern day aren’t really about love and somewhere we’re all in concordance with that.
Of course, there’s an exception simply because love still exists and there’s no challenge it but we are talking about the majority of cases of here. Love is a relationship but is every relationship about love?
Aren’t relationships in the modern day more dependent on attractions and infatuations which turn sour after a few months of togetherness because if it’s love it would never fade away but look around, you’d see relationship dying with the dying attraction and the simple question is, will you dare to choose your self-esteem over a relationship?
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WHERE THERE IS LOVE THERE IS UNDERSTANDING
Understanding is the key! Where there is true love there would always be a sense of understanding and when it is about hooking up just for the sake of it there would always be misunderstandings.
If it is true love conferred upon you by your partner that would never ask you to compromise your self-respect and even if it ever unknowingly do it would be worth it.
But would you put your self-respect at stake for a relationship which is more of a marriage of convenience to maybe have fun or get laid? Wouldn’t a sacrifice of self-esteem in such an arrangement of conveniences haunt you?
Is your urge to be in a relationship larger than your self-respect?
Well! You must pause and reflect if your self esteem has gone for a toss as a part of your relationship.
Would you dare to choose your self-respect over your relationship?
Nothing is larger than your self-respect, nothing smaller than love at least then why would you put your self respect at stake just for the sake of being in a relationship and hold a relationship status just to show off and get laid? Why not wait for love to come your way?